12 Ways to Improve Your Chances With Women in 2008
1. Make New Friends
I think we’ve all experienced the time when you’ve just had enough of some people. Whether you had a fall-out, a fight, or just need to hang around some new people to re-energize your life, making new friends is great in a number of ways. First of all, it’s always fun to get to know someone new. Make a point to befriend someone at work, in one of your classes, or just someone you’ve been acquaintances with, and grow the friendship. Think of this as networking for your sex life. New friends means new friends with female friends.
2. Learn a New Talent
Whether it be a musical instrument, the ability to beer-bong an entire six pack at once, or some quirky sexual talent that rivals some of the big-names, a new talent is a great way to both increase your confidence, and have a way to attract women. New talents also help you build on your character, and allow for personal growth and finding new things in your life.
3. Learn to Dance
This one is a pretty big one. Now, some guys can dance, some can’t. If you want to know a little secret though, women just like men who dance. It’s not 100% important how well they can dance, but showing the confidence to get out and at least try is enough for most women to recognize. It’s been said that women like men who can dance, because they see it as a reflection of how good they’ll be in the bed. While I have yet to really see any information confirming or denying it, it can’t hurt to try. So, take dance classes, ask a friend, whatever. Better yet, find a girl you’re interested in and ask her if she wants to go to dance classes. Not only will you surprise her with spontaneity, but she’ll think its fun, and you get easy, no stress dates, and easily get past the awkward phases quickly. It has been proven that physical exercise with a partner increases your chances with them.
4. Find a New Social Scene
By social scene, I mean the group of friends you hang out with, the bars/clubs you frequent, etc. If you live in a small town, this one may be nearly impossible. But, this one goes great with the new friends, new talent advice. Finding a new social scene can help you in a few ways. First, it puts you around people you don’t know, thus making you build your self confidence while making new contacts and expanding your social network. It can also help you rationalize where you were, and whether you were better off with another group of friends, or if maybe the switch to a new “social scene” would be better.
5. Join a Dating Service
Just do it. Not because you’re desperate, not because you’re a loser who no one likes, but because its like investing, you want to be diversified. Plus, in these times, it really isn’t frowned or laughed upon to do so. And the only bad thing that can happen is you find someone you like, other than that, there are no downsides. Do it just to get out of a rut, to kick start your single guy independence, or just do it to waste some time and toy with females occasionally. Whatever your aim is, it would be a great tool to add to your 2008 women-getting arsenal.
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6. Take Better Care of Yourself
This one is probably the best advice, but the hardest for people to follow. Listen, it’s simple. No guy says he wants a girl who is just “alright”. No one wants to be with someone who is overweight, doesn’t take care of their selves, looks like hell… you get the drift. How you look and carry yourself says a lot to the opposite sex, more so than we can every rationalize. So, take better care of yourself. Workout more, go for a run occasionally, stay away from unhealthy foods. Your body and that next girl will thank you for it.
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7. Watch What You Eat
This one goes right along with taking better care of yourself. With better quality foods you will be smarter, brighter, your skin, hair and body will work better, you’ll lose weight (or gain it if you’re trying to grow), and feel great. Plus, if you start eating more at home, you’ll realize how much money you spend eating out all the time.
8. Put Yourself Out There
This is a big self-confidence booster. Recently, I discovered this video, while corny and long, some of the messages it states are really true, and make you think. The one that I plan on sticking with for 2008 is to “Do one thing, every day, that scares you”. Think about that for a second, doing something everyday that truly scares you can go a long way if done 365 times in a row, think of all the fears you could get over, or the chances you could create for yourself just by doing one thing, each day, that you would have never done in 2007.
9. Learn From Yours and Other’s Mistakes
And oh, how many of them there have been. Take a weekend, a night, a lunch, whatever, and make it a point to ask your friends (male and female) what went wrong in their last relationships. Take note of anything that seems a touchy subject. These are usually the things that break relationships up. Learn from the mistakes of others, so that you can stop it in your next one.
10. Call Your Ex’s
This one can be very extreme, but can help you more than you probably realize. The worst that can happen is that they tell you to get lost, which is where you are with them anyways. But, believe it or not, even after a bad breakup, you can never “turn off” that feeling you once had for them, and neither can they. Call them on a night where you know they wont be stressed out. It may differ, but normally Monday at 8am isn’t a good choice. I suggest a Friday or Saturday after 7pm.
11. Try to Reconnect With Old Flames
We all have them, those people we dated for a couple times but then that thing called life got in the way. Usually those kind of things don’t just go away. So, make an effort to reconnect and communicate with people that fall into this category, whether you do it for a relationship or just for new friends, it can’t hurt either way.
12. Become More Self Confident
While everything mentioned in this article is a way to boost your self confidence, it is only the tip of the iceberg. Here are some links to site/blogs whose sole purpose is help people boost their self-confidence.
So, with that said, I wish all of my readers a great 2008, and hope everyone has great experiences. Got any advice to add? Add a comment below.
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these are great resolutions to work on, thank you for the suggestions! just found your blog via blogcatalog, hope to stay in touch with you! and of course, happy new year!